Please take the following quiz as honestly as you can. The results and your actions afterward can help you through the abuse and violence you are putting on someone else.
Click here for an example of a fair equal relationship. Click here to see controlling tactics.

Have you ever:

  1. Called her/him worthless?
  2. Told her/him needs counseling?
  3. Called her/him a name?
  4. Used the silent treatment against her/him?
  5. Made her/him feel bad about herself/himself?
  6. Broke something in her/his presence?
  7. Slammed a door?
  8. Punched a wall?
  9. Grabbed her/him?
  10. Restrained her/him?
  11. Strangled her/him?
  12. Punched her/him?